Stillness, Authenticity, and Power: Lessons in Stoic Empathy with Abiodun Durojaye

In this illuminating episode of Stoic Empathy, Shermin Kruse welcomes Abiodun Durojaye, a trailblazer in leadership, advocacy, and purpose-driven living. Born in Lagos, Nigeria, Abiodun’s journey from being called "Abby" to fully embracing her name, identity, and mission has inspired countless individuals, including the thousands who connected with her powerful TEDx talk, What’s Your Starbucks Name?

Shermin and Abiodun dive into the complexities of name authenticity and the importance of staying true to oneself in a world that often demands conformity. The conversation expands to explore themes of resilience, leadership challenges as a woman of color, and navigating societal power dynamics while maintaining a sense of purpose.

Abiodun shares her personal experiences with stillness as a source of strength and control, explaining how moments of reflection—rather than silence—have helped her navigate chaos and conflict with grace. The discussion also highlights the stoic principle of focusing on what is within one’s control and the role empathy plays in fostering connection and empowerment.

Tune in to hear Abiodun’s inspiring insights on identity, purpose, and how stoic empathy can help us lead with authenticity, resilience, and intention. This is an episode filled with wisdom for leaders, advocates, and anyone seeking to live in alignment with their true self.

 

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